Shane Stoffels remembers how the ninth month of the year has taken on a bitter-sweet taste.
I wrote this after my 50th birthday:
The Month That Was In Contrast To The 204 Months That Were
For the past 17 years I did not really enjoy my birthday. It was at a surprise party organised for me three days after my birthday, 17 years ago, that I learned my mom had died.
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